You know how sometimes it's like you share somethings with your friends and then they start giving you comments, or share their stories with you in return?
it's all parts and puzzles of what friends are for isn't it? I mean it's only natural for them to speak on top of lending you their listening ears.
The only problem is.. they may not exactly know what is it that you need to hear. For example, I may think that what you've done is not right and thus I should tell you what is the RIGHT thing to do.. despite the fact that we all know when it comes to matters of the heart, no one can be fully sure of what is right or wrong.
Alternatively, I may think what you are thinking is not right, but I make minimal comments, choosing to listen most of the times, or just being by your side.
The question then is, which is better? to just listen and not comment that you may be making a grave mistake? (not that it WILL be a mistake) OR, to do what everyone calls knocking-some-sense-into-your-good-friend?
This has been inside of me for quite some time now.. I've been struggling between 'scolding the shite outta you', and 'let things be the way they are'.. until one day, when I realised I've somewhat been through a similar situation..
and this is the day I realised what you need is not any more opposition, but the strength to stick to your ideals.
It's funny isn't it? even when I've said I did put myself into your shoes, I may not have fully done so. Putting myself in your shoes mean basing on my character, what I'd have done if the same thing happends to me. I feel what is more important is actually to be thinking what YOU and only YOU could have done?
and so when I see your point, everything comes so naturally and easily..
or perhaps I should say, I believe I've somewhat been through it and during that time, I was so upset being told what I should do or if I did this or did not do that, then i'm the bad person and i shall be condemned and stuff like that.. so all the more i can understand..
i was busy searching for a decent black n white dress for this bizad dnd.. and jasc was my fairy godmama!!
i managed to get a black dinner dress out of my own pocket.. then popped over to jasc's.. she's just back frm her bangkok trip recently.. with tons of shoes and accessories! hahhahaha.. she lent me her white heels, white laces, white earrings and white flower band for me to play around with, see how i wanna 'hang' them on me! hahaha..
and tadah! perfect simple dress for da dinner!! weeeeeee~!
took lotsa phots.. (of cos rite? dress nice nice liaoz must take many photos!!)
i had some difficulties walking in the pair of heels but only becos i suck at walking in them.. esp when they are pointed heels! hahaha good thing i did not fall flat on my face and embarrass myself hehz..
anyway, the heels were ver comfortable!! no blisters after long hours! in fact it feels a little cushiony, holding my ar4 kar1 in place!
in case you thought i rebonded my hair before attending dnd.. no no!! i just went to cut fringe, then told my hairdresser i'm gg for a dinner and he washed and blew my hair into place la! haha.. now my natural strands are back sometimes i feel like gg bald.. hahaha..
the food was not good, but considering the fact that we had wala wala's band (i forgot the name) to entertain us.. it's not bad for the price of $29.. did i mention dnd was at raffles town club? i dun really like the place.. so no comments la..
since grace wasn't able to make it to dnd in time.. i took photos of the food for her!!
"nar grace! your share of food here here here!!" *points below*
well, only almost all the dishes here la, i forgot about the mee, but it wasn't wonderful, so no regrets missing out on that one! *hee*
it was such a fun nite.. and it continued at cineleisure's hk cafe.. love ya all!! let's have gathering soon! hahahaha..
Nothing much over this weekend.. or perhaps there's nothing that made a deep impression in me..
oh yes, oh yes.. the supposedly anniversary dinner.. one year mus at least go lemon grass once.. cos that's the place monkey and me went to eat jus b4 we became a couple haha..
his friends joined us.. and we had alot of food!
well, ya, what else but food rite? i'm always eating.. or in fact we're always eating.. my blog's full of phots of food.. hahaha..
but hey, singapore's got alot of good makan places ma.. and there really isn't many interesting places on a small island eh?
after dinner, mj as usual.. then home to sleep..
sunday, went compass point to support my cute nephew brandon for the baby bonanza superwalker contest!
before the competition, he was running around the place non-stop lar! his parents and grandparents and godparents had to run after him in case he got lost! so full of energy ya know? but then hor, by the time it was near his turn for the superwalker contest, he was tired.. and had no mood to compete! hahaha.. in the end when it was his turn, he walked a few steps and sat down on the mat! hahahaha.. then he walked another few steps, and sat down again! haha.. i was laughing uncotrollably.. so cute! he did not get into the final round la.. cos he was not 'fast' enuff to complete walking the track.. but still got some consolation prizes, which consist of some diapers and etc?
yeah.. it was so funny.. if he's gonna join other competition, i sure go watch him if i'm free!!!
Rag and Flag champions!!!
no need to say anything.. just pictures and pictures and pictures.. Bizad rocks!!!!! ROCKS big time!
I say bizad number one, u dun believe very cham....
But i still think bizad should work harder next year.. I dun wanna carry a whole bag of coins with no bizad flaggers to donate to in raffles place!!
Ding Dong Ding Dong!! It's the second year!! hehz.. my dear dear is so sweet! see.. no matter how much he hates buying flowers thinking that it's a waste of his money.. he'll still do it if he knows it's gonna make me so delighted! muahahahahaha!
He actually brought the bouquet with him and waited for me at my office building lobby!!! so sweet right? hahaha.. i'm happy la, but i also realised it's quite paiseh to walk around with such a big bouquet..
first, it's not light.. quite heavy leh.. second, ppl will look at you and the flowers and sometimes whisper to their partners or friends.. just weird la, not used to being 'watched' hahaha.. third, we were on our way to esplanade and it was people mountain people sea, so gotta carry the flowers with extra caution!
now i can understand how sweet bfs are when they not paiseh just carry the big bouquet walk on the streets.. hahahahahahaha..
the fireworks on 8 august was pretty, but i thought last year's much better.. the right feelings and not so squeezy.. hhahahahaa..
on nationaly day.. monkey woke up early to cook lunch for us! hee.. my sister so lucky, since she was home, she get a share too!
nothing much for national day.. i'm over the period of watching the parade on tv.. instead, we went je to dinner.. hahaha..
such a simple celebration for second year.. but i love it! hee..
oh! wanna know what he bought for me? hahahahahaha.. check this out! mine's the pure white color one.. 30G.. hahahaha enough for me to store my whole bleach and naruto series.. along with hundreds of songs!!!!
where to find such a poor bf who still spends on me? hee.. he's endangered!
i no money la, so bought him a new belt.. his old armani one sucks.. hee.. now i start work.. then i can slowly save up to get him his dream present.. SSSSssshhhhhhhh, i won't tell!
Genting trip 28 to 30 July
this is my second genting trip with monkey and friends! hehz.. driving up the mountain.. but with a different car.. last time was nissan sunny, this time round toyota corolla! sweet!
i brought puppet eeyore along.. to keep me entertained (cos monkey will use it to make me laugh) hehz.. dun believe? i show u!
hmmm, perhaps it's the second time going there, so i dun have many photos taken.. it's all the same old stuff going on.. and i can't possibly take photos inside the casino rite?
oh oh! one thing's different.. the previous trip here, i had to sneak into the casino, hoping they dun check my passport (cos haven't reach 21 years old la).. the first nite i went in successfully.. not so fortunate the second afternoon.. monkey was itching to go inside and try his luck (which then he did not have much of).. i ended up sitting alone at coffee bean with an elle magazine and hot mocha for almost 2 hours! I did not have my hp with me, and so i dared not go toilet, scared he would come any minute! hahaha.. so funny la come to think of it..
we always love to have dinner at happy valley restaurant.. cheap and good! the other outlets all so bloody expensive and the food dun taste good wan.. with the exception of mary brown!! i love eating fried chicken in msia.. so tender and fresh! hahahaha..
ha! this one picture must put big big let all of u see.. the most expensive drink that i've bought during the 3days! cost 3.50rm for such as SMALL cup FULL of ICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the worst thing was, after our meal we went one level up to the cinema to catch out movie - dragon tiger gate (in cantonese oh my gosh).. the drinks there only 3rm for a BIG cup!!!!!!
my expenses for this trip was minimal.. cos casino side no win no lose.. then some food was sponsored courtesy of those who won money.. hahaha.. but the arcade there sucks la! machines always faulty ( i think about 65% of them).. cheat us of our credits! humph!
the weather is always so nice.. hahah why can't singapore's weather be like this???? the thought of being back here sweating like a pig is very revolting!!!! and if the weather is hot, monkey will face black black easily! hahaha.. see how happy he was like a boy when we were at genting!
My commencement on 7 July!
Haha I know this is super late.. but I've been having connection problems at home.. and my office too open liaoz, i cannot do much updates la..
lazy to type.. so shall let u all see photos!
hahaha, no more lectures and tutorials and sectional classes anymore!!!
No more trying to squeeze my brains dry and not sleep a wink for more than 2 days to complete projects or assignments!!
My mama everytime take photos either dun look at the camera, or closes her eyes.. For ten thousand freaking photos, nine thousand nine hundred and nintey-nine photos are like the above.. haiz..
A big big group photo~ haha, next year my turn to go ucc see them in their academic gown!
oh, by the way, it's so difficult to wear, so heavy, so thick! and who was the one who ever started the motar board thingy? alamak!
but not bad la, at least the color is nice.. white for us! hahaha..
xiang bu xiang harry porter???
hehz.. of cos monkey was there with me.. and he bought me eeyore!!!!!!!!! so cute!
I graduate liaoz! hmmm.. work life has started.. i like my job.. almost everything about it.. except the pay.. hahahaha
but i'm gonna learn alot alot and see how far i can go.. hehz.. soon i shall be excel spss ppt expert! then i shall be tm1 html and yadayadayada expert! hahahaha..
crazy bee..