i need to get a new pair of contact lens soon.. the current ones are giving me probs.. my eyes are getting irritatingly irritated as and when they like.. and i have to wear my old and ugly specs (i still like them but i want a new one la) to work! haha not tt i really mind (since nobody looks at us anyway).. i jus bu4 shuang3 la.. haiyoweyar..

have you ever felt that your fren's gf is too controlling?

or that your fren is too hum4 cos he listens to his gf?

do you have frens who think that guys should have the commanding prescence in a r/s?

or do you have frens who listens totally to their bfs regardless of how ridiculous their demands may be?

how abt how do u feel when you bf is being considered scared of you..

or YOU are being considered by ur bf's fren(s) as too demanding? tt they dun really like u?

for me, i think i'll feel very very weird when i see his frens.. and i despise MCPs.

no.

i shouldn't despise them. tt's not right.

i just dun like them.. can't live with one.

YES. i can't stand mcp esp if my bf is one..

wait. an mcp won't even be my bf in the first place. they are disgusting. they make me feel that gers are jus slaves without human rights.

maybe it's not that bad? no. it's that bad. at least in my opinion.

my thoughts are if you are really the one for him, he'll give in to you(tho not evey time) no matter how unreasonable you are.. shouting at you and then later on pacify you is not counted as giving in. that's thinking you are stupid enuff to buy in his sweet words for the hurt caused earlier on..

want someone to listen to you and do anything and everything anytime upon ur command? go train a dog la.. as quoted from someone even a dog bites sometimes when you throw tantrums at it.. i can't imagine how can someone practice 100% compliance to his demands?

i know i shouldn't judge. i'm not. i'm confused as to what is gg on in this person's mind should there be one..

whatever happens to mutual respect, trust and understanding when he thinks there should be his commanding prescence? what a revolting statement this is! ican't believe it!

if any of my frens are like tt and i happen to find out, i'll be disgusted.. no. i won't hate the person or stop being frens.. jus disgusted cos i think it's not right to be an mcp..

i dun see anything wrong in expressing to him my qualms abt his passion since i dun gamble. this situation is like tt cos his gf (which is me) happens to be someone who dun gamble! kudos to your gfs being able to play and gamble like u do.. (i'm absolutely okie with tt since it's none of my business)..

see.. it's none of your business!!

he has his own way of thinking perceptions way of life blablabla.. who are you to say he is afraid of me? so when u respect ur gfs means u afraid of them la? see?!?!?! it's perception!! he is the one who understands me and my issue with ppl who break promises.. tt's y despite how much he wants to join u all yesterday he stayed with me!

to me tt's a hell lot of respect for me and i do appreciate that.. appreciate it bloody hell so much i felt like tearing..

cos in their eyes he has become one who's afraid of gf and always listens to me, dun have his own dignity.. blablabla.

he may not care wat others say or think, esp since those are his buddies.. i do care but i wil pretend i don't.. since i dun wan to put him in a difficult spot.

imagine wat happens when i totally dun wan to see them anymore.. haha.. so badrite.. so cannot.. i jus have to understand and stand by the fact that we have our own thinking.. this is the way we like our r/s to be and to work out.. who the fuck cares abt whether we are like you all?

sheesh. i still feel awkward.. and i felt really bad he has to be tot by others this way.

for goodness sake i wanna scream I DID NOT NOT ALLOW HIM TO GO OVERSEAS WITH U ALL WITHOUT ME!!!!!!

when there was a plan to take a short trip, i oredi agreed with him i'll hav my own stuff to do during tt weekend he's out of town.. i never once say he can't go without me! i'm not that selfish okie.. what the hell do you think i am? if i dun allow him to go might as well i take a rope and tie him to my house rite?

has what u all said ever been through your BIG brains?

or is it verbal diarrhoea?

which part of he dun have money cos he lost his phone and has jus blew a few hundred on another phone do you not understand? yeah. of cos the trip will be more fun with him but how can keep forcing him to go like tt? so what if he jio the trip? unforeseen cirstumstances oso bobian rite?

yeah i won't judge cos i don't. i jus voice out wat i feel towards you actions to my bf.. despite the fact u all are buddies and are in more of a position perhaps to talk like tt..

to monkey: i'm sorry i jus voicing out my thoughts. i have absolutely no intentions of despising discriminating stop socialising and knowing them. they are fun to be with and they are UR FRENS.. i respect you so i will try my best.. i will not say anymore cos i noe it's not nice to hear bad stuff abt frens.. i jus wished they understand better..